A bad surprise for the cunning young man Maxim ended in a “casual, no strings attached” relationship of five years. This gender misunderstanding unfolded as follows.
At the age of 25, Maxim got lucky: his grandmother passed away. As a result, the young man, skillfully handling the deceased’s property, acquired a small studio and the opportunity to build his personal life. However, sly Maxim wasn’t in a hurry to get married. “Why should I, a fool, get married? I’ll live for now with someone without obligations. Also, apartment chores as a bonus, cooking, and no future property sharing, brainwashing, alimony!”
Maxim unveiled his world-conquering plan to his friends, which seemed ideal to him. Maxim’s non-resident girlfriend was invited to play the role of “someone” who showed clear sympathy for him. Without revealing his sinister plan to the girl, Maxim showered her with some signs of attention and whispered sweet words, after which he could only enjoy his masculine victory. And behold how the girl slowly drags her belongings into the studio.
Initially, Maxim thought this relationship would last a maximum of a few months, then he would organize a new casting. However, the girl was beautiful, accommodating, economical, with a good character, and there were no other contenders in the vicinity with longer legs and a better character. Therefore, having lived in comfort for over 4 years, Maxim was convinced that he was in a “no one owes anything to anyone” relationship stage. However, what a surprise it was when the girl had a surprise for him.
In a beautiful box with storks, presented to Maxim, a long piece of paper with two red lines lay ominously. A note completed the sense of drama: you will soon become a dad. “Uh… No relationship… No obligations… Yeayeaye…” was all the involuntary father could mumble in a strangled voice. A proud title, as experience shows, he will have to bear for at least 18 years, whether he likes it or not.
While Maxim’s future without a crystal ball is clear, one question remains open: who is responsible for this drama? I think, as always, both are to blame here.
On the one hand, cunning is to blame, preventing the girl from immediately expressing unfavorable conditions for her: living in an unfamiliar house, investing in an unknown man, and being in a position either as a servant or a dog, which can be returned to the nursery at any time. Perhaps after a bold and open statement, the girl wouldn’t even think about pregnancy. But maybe she wouldn’t be living with Maxim. But people want to climb the Christmas tree and not get pricked by a needle. On the other hand, stupidity is to blame. Because the words “I don’t need commitment” are not a reliable method of contraception, even if repeated a hundred times. There are other ways to handle that…
Meanwhile, Maxim hasn’t mastered such seemingly simple things, let him figure it out. What they fought for, what they encountered, as they say…
