We don’t want to send our daughter to kindergarten yet, but the mother-in-law no longer wants to babysit. Now I don’t know what to do.

My name is Duan. My wife and I have a little girl. Our little girl is only three years old. Our Hanna is a long-awaited child.

I have been married for six years. We immediately dreamed of having a baby, but  couldn’t get pregnant. It took a long time for treatment, but we never lost hope of becoming parents.

Then the miracle happened.  got pregnant and gave birth to a wonderful daughter. We simply adore her. Our little wonder. We all love her very much.  has been on maternity leave for two years; that’s how much they allowed her to exceed her maternity leave. If  hadn’t taken maternity leave, she would have lost her job and a good salary.

My mother-in-law stayed with our baby for a year and a half while  and I were at work. Everything was fine. When we returned from work, my mother-in-law went home.

And a month ago, my mother-in-law suddenly announced that she would no longer babysit her granddaughter. Why? Our daughter should interact more with other children, that’s the first reason. And secondly, Vika has become very active and agile; now her mother-in-law can’t keep up with her.

But  and I don’t want to send our daughter to daycare. We know from friends that kids who go to daycare often get sick. We don’t want our child to get sick often. And we also have a very unique daughter. If she doesn’t like something, she starts crying a lot. Who will negotiate with her at daycare? No one. Why is our child so upset?

We tried to explain to our mother-in-law why we don’t want to send Vika to daycare, but she wouldn’t listen. She says other kids also go to daycare to get used to it. And everything will be fine with Vika.

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