Appraisal. Seryoga came home from work yesterday all stiff. I started asking questions about the wedding, and he immediately looked down. He says that tomorrow, he’ll only buy tickets for himself…
• And what about you??
• I’m completely speechless. And my husband tells me, “Bunny, I received my modest salary in January. We spent the New Year holidays so that mom wouldn’t cry. Therefore, I’ll probably go alone to Dima’s wedding. And you sit with Dashula. Nothing bad will happen. And I still have to live there for three days in a hotel and eat somehow. And, of course, buy a gift for the newlyweds,” Mila told her friend the news.
Katya and Sergey were a young family. They lived in a one-room apartment in Moscow. The mother-in-law decided to give them an apartment. Katya was on maternity leave. Dasha was almost two years old. But the daughter was not in a hurry to work. There was no one to leave her daughter with. The father-in-law provided an apartment to the couple, so, as they say, thanks for that.
And Katya’s mother, Marina Sergeevna, took care of herself; besides, she worked. The woman immediately told her daughter that if she urgently needed to sit with her granddaughter, she would definitely come. But letting Katya go to buy a new dress and dye her hair, no. As they say, they gave birth themselves, so let them figure it out.

Katya knew her mother’s character very well. By the way, Marina Sergeevna flew abroad every year. Moreover, the woman spent every weekend in beauty salons and in the masseur’s office.
Katya and her husband had no force majeure situations. They decided everything together. When the husband was at home, the wife went about her business, and vice versa.
Certainly, the husband was not particularly pleased and rarely let his wife go out, and not for long. Katya had many reasons to quickly return home.
But then came the wedding invitation. Sergey’s younger brother decided to get married. I had to leave for another city for three days. Katya went to her mother to ask her to sit with her granddaughter. After all, the wedding is important. Nothing will happen to mom in three days. Moreover, Dasha is a rather calm girl; she doesn’t cry and isn’t capricious over trifles.
Mom refused for a long time, then, sighing, took three days off. Katia was delighted. After all, she was tired of sitting with a child for two years. Relax at the wedding…
But her beautiful dreams collapsed after her husband’s statement. For the daughter, it was quite an event. She breastfed the baby for a year without leaving the house. Then it turned out that no one wanted to sit with her. And my husband often attended corporate parties, went on business trips. As the saying goes, be free.
Of course, the girl did not know her brother well. I saw the bride like that only in the photo.
Katya was very upset. But her husband did not want to understand her. He thought everything was fine.
• Well, darling, firstly, your mother is not very happy to take Dash with her. Let her rest these days, and you’ll sit. Why would anyone be embarrassed? If she doesn’t want to sit, don’t do it. You don’t really know my family. What’s the point of this trip for you? Your job is to stay home and take care of the baby. And I’m commuting.
Katya decided that no one would go. Why should a husband decide what to do?
In your opinion, who is right in this situation?
Personally, it seems to me that Katya’s mother and her husband are a bit insolent. Of course, Marina is not obliged to sit with her granddaughter. But you can think not only about yourself but also about your daughter.
And the husband does not understand his wife at all. She spent so much time with her daughter. She also needs to rest.
He should understand this if he really loves his wife…

Katya in this situation is very sorry and understandable. She is completely dependent on her husband. There is no one to help the poor.
It would be interesting to hear the opinion of readers. In general, we hope that Katya will be able to solve the problem and express her opinion to her husband about it.
Dear girls, remember, we have a free country! You can express your opinion, nothing will happen. The husband will not ask for a divorce if Katya sets a condition for him. And even if it happens, then these are not sincere feelings. You need to respect others and bring joy to them.
